Sunday 1 January 2023

New beginnings?

Every new start comes with an incomplete ending...

We all love new beginnings, but how many of us put an end to the endings?
Life lately has been about responsibilities, running away from those responsibilities, and the desire to fulfill those responsibilities. Going out, following a schedule in the loop, getting back home, and still getting no time to be back home with yourself. 
Things change drastically when you grow up, but no one ever told you they would change so fast. How five months can turn into a bundle of disgust and how two days can be the most longing period for you. But why does every happy period come to an end and a period of "loneliness" is like a 2-hour Salman Khan movie.

What are incomplete endings?

Poorvi's urban dictionary describes incomplete endings as lies and commitments which have to come out of the "everything is good" shell and forcefully come to an end. 

It is so silly to call something incomplete and an ending. Endings are meant to collide and turn into a "fruitful product". But what about the forceful endings you do, which are still an incomplete pathway for you, but you have to do it for the sake of doing it.
I did not understand the concept of incomplete endings, before kick-starting my new year. The moment I had to plan out my year (which seems extremely foolish to plan your future), I knew it was time to bid goodbyes to things and to people who are just too incomplete in my life. Yes it seems difficult, yes you will cry, and yes you will regret it, but these endings are important to what we call, "MOVING ON" in life. 

So are these endings important? 

Certainly yes! You need to get yourself out of the thought that things will be better if you really want to do something for yourself. When you see those, "Disappear from social media and build your lives" posts, have faith in them. 
Sometimes all you have to do is get out of certain places to get into a better place for yourself. This will be tough at first but after months or years, you will feel good, and trust me YOU WILL. 
This new year instead of making new promises and new commitments make sure you are over with the incompleteness you have. And that will truly be your NEW YEAR. 
I wish you all a very HAPPY NEW YEAR ❤. 

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And will see you all again, probably before the next year!



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